Celebrating the New Year Together

Introduction

I am not going back to China for New Year this year.

Rather than spend it alone, I would like to celebrate with you. Meeting the book club friends has been the happiest part of my year in Seattle.

Of all the social occasions we attend, the friendships formed through honest conversation matter most. In nearly twenty book club meetings before New Year, we have talked about everything from poetry to the philosophy of life. Our reading tastes differ, but we like to think and share; sustained conversation has brought us closer.

I feel at ease with my book club friends.

I know this is an open, accepting group, where something I say will receive a thoughtful response, often more than I expected.

So, on a recent impulse, I decided to invite everyone to spend New Year’s Eve together and welcome the Year of the Wood Snake.

How shall we celebrate?

Decorate together for New Year

I have prepared lights, couplets, prints, and wall lamps. We can choose a festive dress code, and everyone can bring decorations or wear something seasonal. One of the prints is quite large; perhaps we can make a New Year photo wall.

Make dumplings together

Whether you are from northern or southern China, join the dumpling-making team, or keep us company and cheer us on. The assistant and I will prepare wrappers and filling. If you would like to bring a special filling, let us know in advance.

Share a New Year’s Eve dinner

Bring one or two dishes you like, homemade or bought, which can be reheated at the venue. We can collect a list beforehand to avoid duplicates and make a potluck dinner.

Watch and comment on the Spring Festival Gala

The gala will provide our New Year’s Eve soundtrack. Watch closely or leave it in the background; there will be people beside you to share your comments.

Write New Year wishes to exchange

I have prepared square red paper, brushes, and ink so we can write or draw wishes for one another.

Bring a book to exchange

I have long wanted to hold a book exchange. New Year’s Eve seems a good time: write a message inside, then exchange books at random. Who knows whose book you will receive?

Reflect on the past year and hopes for the next

What stayed with you this year? Did you make any major changes? What are you hoping for in the year ahead?

Sing and stay up to welcome the New Year

Raise a glass with friends, stay up together, and wish one another a happy New Year 🧨.

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These are my ideas so far. I am even considering buying a pitch-pot set, and perhaps a karaoke microphone if there is time. We can discuss other activities in the group.

What should you bring?

1. One or two dishes you enjoy, homemade or bought.

2. Something to wear for the New Year dress code. Festive accessories are welcome.

3. A book to exchange.

4. Games, toys, board games, or other ideas for things to do together.